roach-works:

listen. aging into your thirties rocks. yes your joints get a little creaky. yes you can’t sleep in a pretzel on the floor anymore after a concert or a convention. and you lose some friends. but the thing is that you sort out who your real friends are and you sort out who you really are. and you get to see your friends settling into careers they like, and adopt new dogs and cats, and you find a job you can stand, and get really good at arts and crafts, and maybe that book you loved as a kid gets a movie deal and it doesn’t suck, and you learn to like new food and bake your own bread, and you realize that the great portfolio of self harm scars you all used to curate are going white with age and not updated, and half your friends are a different gender now and so much happier and maybe you are too, and you know who you are, and that it’s a journey and not a revelation. it’s a direction you’re headed, and you’re enjoying the trip.

reaching your 30′s rocks. and i’m hearing good things about what comes next, too.

roach-works:

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i am looking into your eyes, i am holding your hand. i absolutely promise.

if you can just live long enough, your soul will build your body into a home. you will live there and you will find a way to be at peace. it’s worth the time and it’s worth the work. i promise.

hubblegleeflower:

Your soul will build your body into a home.

eagle-writes:

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Your soul will build your body into a home. @roach-works

Ink: Diamine Schubert

roach-works:

how gorgeous! im really flattered!


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#this post was *not* queued to ensure proper timing because it felt like bad luck to schedule a post like this in advance #we are coming to you live from shortly after midnight on November 14th #it’s my 30th birthday #and I am thrilled to have made it to this milestone #despite all of the everything‚ I have survived #(I…don’t super *expect* my early thirties to be a turning point for a lot of the stuff described?) #(they’ve been happening for a while) #(my left knee went creaky in January 2022) #(around March 2021 I started gradually losing the ability to comfortably lie down without increasingly unreasonable amounts of cushioning) #((I have now replaced my mattress with a springless one and am up to five pillows and sleep on top of a doubled-up comforter)) #((I don’t think I can do much to shore up my couch though)) #(ditched a *lot* of toxic friendships over the course of 2015) #I’ve had quite enough of entities that might pee on the carpet when I’m not looking #but I *am* hoping to adopt a bunch of houseplants #(hypoallergenic ones obvs) #and I could see myself having a pet fish again someday‚ in some more prosperous time #I know who I am #but knowing what your home *would* look like if you built one isn’t the same as having it #(though TBF I *am* an even more kickass cyborg now than I was ten years ago‚ which I *very* much appreciate) #and I sure do want a job I can stand #…I can’t say I exactly *believe* this post‚ deep down #I’ve known too many people in their late thirties who were still barely surviving #and for that matter too many people whose *thirties* were great and then everything fell apart in their *forties* #but we shall see #as one of the meshnet projects used to say: #deus nolens exitus #birthdays #tag rambles #aging cw?

autisticmabel:

the autism mood of never knowing when its “your turn” in a convo so you say the first word of your sentence about 5 times before you actually get to speak


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#one of the most relatable posts to ever be written #autism #that excuse for communication called speech #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

official-kircheis:

sang-the-sun-in-flight:

rollingtablesiguess:

Rolls to Alarm Your Players

Want to spice the game up? Why not try alarming your players for no real reason? Make sure to make a show out of counting the dice before you roll.

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@jenlog

@shieldfoss @garmbreak1


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#I didn’t actually laugh aloud but it still amused me enough to reblog #games #this probably deserves some warning tag but I am not sure what #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

r3negade-x:

probablybadrpgideas:

Hang on

  • Humans and other “good” species (dwarves, elves, halflings, etc) are usually diurnal- we’re active during the day.
  • As such, we associate the light with “goodness”, and thus refer to good things with terminology referencing light, the sun, and so forth.
  • Orcs, goblins, trolls, etc follow “dark lords” and “dark religions”, they live in “dark kingdoms” and join “the forces of darkness”.
  • They’re also usually nocturnal.

I’m starting to see where the cultural confusion may have come from here.

Thing is, with so many dwarves living underground, you could make the argument that they think darkness is good, rather than light. I personally like Terry Pratchett’s take on them with their creation myth:

“The first Brother walked toward the light, and stood under the open sky. Thus he became too tall. He was the first Man. He found no Laws and he was enlightened.

The second Brother walked toward the darkness, and stood under a roof of stone. Thus he achieved the correct height. He was the first Dwarf. He found the Laws Tak had written, and he was endarkened.”


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#you’re right and you should say it #meta #this probably deserves some warning tag but I am not sure what #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

changeling-droneco asked: as youre very both old school fandom and also someone who works to preserve old fandom content, what do you think is the best way to print off and preserve fanfics? I’ve been wanting to start to move my many many many archived pdfs into actual physical copies but ive been way too intimidated to really look deep into it so I was wondering if you had a preference

prismatic-bell:

Okay, so.

My preference is “yes.” Yes, I want you to archive them. Yes, I want you to save them. I’ve worked to preserve 1960s teen pulp mags, for fuck’s sake, it can’t get much worse than that, and I’m grateful to have them.

With that said, pick any or all of the following options to make your physical printouts last longer:

–select acid-free paper
–bind by sewing, not stapling
–store in archival sleeves, like the ones you use for old comic books

And now, pick any or all of the following options to make my life easier as a historian (or, you know, the lives of the historians who come after me):

–include the title
–include the author’s name
–include the fandom name
–include which version of the canon, if relevant (e.g. the OG Transformers show vs the Michael Bay movies)
–include the date, or at least year, of publication
–include the summary
–include the site of origin, including the URL

All of these things are called provenance and help not only to identify a specific work, but to place it within its cultural context. As an amusing example: I recently got into James Bond, and decided to go through every fic in the main pairing tag, in chronological order. There came a point where suddenly, out of nowhere, there were like two solid pages of nothing but A/B/O, which I previously had not seen at all. I had a suspicion, so I looked it up, and sure enough–those two pages appeared within just a couple of weeks of the corresponding Supernatural episode. Having publication dates let me determine that. If I were a historian trying to piece together a long-ago puzzle instead of going “lol I live on the hellsite, I bet I know exactly where this came from,” that would be a huge datapoint. I could probably find a similar sudden explosion in other fandoms, as well–and if we’re going far enough in the future, if Supernatural were to just vanish off the face of the planet along with its entire fandom, historians could still trace that it existed and even determine some of its events based on when certain tropes begin to appear in other fandoms. And further, the fact that its tropes and major events appear in so many other fandoms would allow those historians to say “this must have been a very, very popular story.” (This isn’t just me making shit up to sound important, by the way. This is literally how we have records of a lot of things throughout antiquity and even into the Renaissance. The more copies there are of something, or the more references that are made to a thing in other things, the more likely it is for at least part of it to survive. This is literally how we know about Shakespeare’s two lost plays–he was a popular enough playwright that quartos of his plays were advertised for sale.)

Whew! Now let’s get into stuff you could do that would make me, as a historian, scream with delight if I were to open your folder full of labeled, acid-free fanfiction fifty years from now:

–write a little something about why you picked this particular fic to preserve in hard copy when doing so is bulky and time-consuming compared to the easy instant storage of the internet, yes, even if your reason is “I’m trying not to use my phone in bed because the screen keeps me awake but this story is soothing to reread”
–write a little something about who you are, even if it’s just “my name is X, my age is Y, I live in Z, I printed this out in 2022”

And last but not least:

Marginalia. Marginalia. Marginalia, my beloved. That’s when you write your thoughts in the columns on the sides, underline stuff, circle it, and so on. Having marginalia means I actually get a window into your thoughts as you read–your perspective, stuff that stuck out to you, places the story made you feel some kind of serious emotion. And yes, this goes for everything. Villain A kills Hero B and you write “YOU MOTHERFUCKER” in the margin, that tells Future Historian Me that you really loved Hero B, you were invested in seeing her succeed, and that this scene really resonated with you. One of my most treasured possessions in the fandom museum is a copy of the novelization of the Help! movie the Beatles did. This particular copy is very worn–unsurprising, it was a cheap paperback even when it was printed–but also, its original owner apparently took it to the movie theatre and

wrote notes in the margins indicating all the things happening onscreen that weren’t in the book. What does this tell me? WELL. Let’s go ahead and take a look:

1) the written ink doesn’t look any newer than the book, so I’m guessing a little when I say this was the original owner and in the theatre, but I have an actual datapoint I’m basing that on
2) based on handwriting and the main demographic of the Beatles audience at the time, this was a young woman, probably a teenager.
3) she went to see the movie more than once (some notes are in pencil, some in ink, but the handwriting is all the same)
4) she was dedicated to making sure every moment of the movie was preserved. This was an era before home video players, so once the movie left theatres, she had no guarantee of seeing it again.
5) while the book is worn, it’s not beaten all to shit. It was read a lot, but there’s no evidence it was mistreated, so it was probably a prized or at least respected possession.

What can I extrapolate from this, with the understanding that I mean “what theories can I reasonably form but not prove”? Well. She was probably a pretty big fan, since she went to see the movie at least twice and also bought the book. Maybe she wanted to keep the story after the movie was gone. Maybe she was looking for answers for some teen mag contest like “find these things in the Help! movie and win a chance to meet the Beatles.” Maybe she had a friend who wasn’t allowed to go to the movie. You know what the most tantalizing possibility is to me, although I’ll never be able to prove it and actual ethics as a historian mean I can only present it as one among many possibilities? Maybe she did it as a source reference for writing fanfiction. We don’t know. We can’t know, because I have no idea who the original owner was or if she’s even still alive and no way to trace her. But that? In terms of fandom history, that is a fucking gold mine. Pure 24-karat all through. From a strictly historical view, that’s worth more than the animation cel I’ve got in there, and I paid over a hundred bucks for that thing.

So yeah! That was a lot of words to say “just do it.” But there’s your answer!

changeling-droneco:

Oh this is super helpful I had never even HEARD of acid-free paper before this, and I had no idea how important things like dates and notes in the margins could be! Also gives me an excuse to practice sewing again for the first time in years if stapling isn’t the best idea. I still have plenty of my own research to do because I care deeply about a lot of these stories and I want to do them justice. I’m also just really glad there’s people like you who go “Who cares if its a shitty first attempt? I have worse and I love it immensely not just despite of it but in some ways because of it!” it really takes the edge of my anxiety about not being perfect.

prismatic-bell:

LAST TIME, ON “NINA BLOGS FANDOM HISTORY”:

Make me scream in glee by doing these things!

@sailorzeo can confirm she just saw me do just that, when she handed me an old book of printed fanfiction (actual quote upon her finding it: “SQUEEAK!!”). I’m looking through it right now, and when I say whatever you write, WHATEVER you write, provides provenance and context?

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This is from 1996. Today it would almost certainly be measured in total word count. But in Ye Olde Days, you had to watch how much content you were putting per part because dial-up was slow and people wanted to read their fic when they were still young; measuring in pages or K/KB (kilobytes, not thousands) was the standard.

This is literally a look at the customs of fandom before broadband or even DSL were widespread. And it’s a single handwritten page. Look at everything there! How Zeo (and the author) chose to organize it; the length compared to modern-day fic; the way it’s segmented. (Looking at the fic itself, the formatting is also way different than modern formatting. Good, but different.)

And at least in theory, via the Wayback Machine or archive.org, I could still go find this fic online, because the name of the webpage is included on the printouts.

WRITE. YOUR. PROVENANCE.

starsdreaming:

I’m going to add a little bit that will make historians love you even more when you write the provenance down. Add the date you downloaded the fic.

When you are sourcing online information for research papers and the like, you have to put the date you found the info, because it can change on the web page. The information on the reference page is roughly

“Author, title, journal name, volume, number, year, url, date accessed” or

“Author, title, url, date accessed” for something short

prismatic-bell:

Important addition.

moreroads:

…..i have thousands of words worth of comments that Ive left on fic. many that have been replied to and that I still have access to download also……

do….do historians want that too?

@prismatic-bell

prismatic-bell:

YEP.

Just the idea thrills me. Comments are a form of marginalia! They’re sharing your thoughts, but with the author this time. The fact that we can do that so instantly is unmatched in history and it absolutely changes the way people engage with the text.


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#history #101 Uses for Infrastructureless Computers #fandom #amnesia cw? #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once #P.S. this‚ the only Backup Awareness Week post that was *already* in my queue before Backup Awareness Week hit #concludes our queue of Backup Awareness Week posts #be safe out there #(P.P.S. this afternoon‚ 2023-11-10‚ I was thinking over which fics to maybe do this with while I was washing dishes) #(this dusk I saw the post again while rearranging my queue) #(and‚ I want you to know‚ an hour later a new chapter of ”Give These People a Break” came out) #(and…yeah‚ if I end up doing this I’m doing that one first) #(it is important to know that you are not alone)

birdantlers:

it genuinely makes me sad and kinda upset when someone purges all their old art off the internet like. barring harmful content what if someone liked that. What if someone would have. And now nobody will ever know and it’s just gone. even people’s old invader zim askblogs or whatever getting deleted feels like a micro alexandria to me and that’s just something I made up. I wasn’t even thinking of a specific one it just stresses me out. Is this the autism I don’t get why nobody else seems to freak internally abt it like I do. I see artists whose blogs I’ve never even looked at go like “man so glad I deleted all my old stuff it’s so clean” or saying they throw out art from when they were kids I’m like. how are you not hurling. How is that not distressing that is literally your tree rings why would you do that. I want to see what’s out there. people want to see it I promise someone out there likes it

don’t they??? Does everyone get quietly irrationally upset by this as me, or is this just hyperfixation/autism/some amalgam of the two. I’m not a hoarder or obsessive compulsive or anything like that so i wonder..

Anyways. reblog if you had a favorite amateur youtube animator in your childhood whose channel got nuked without a trace one day that you still think about.


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#in 2011 there was a set of filk lyrics‚ ”Hark‚ the Weeping Angels Sing”‚ going around Tumblr #the blog I read it on was run by a Doctor Who fictive who deactivated a few months later #(I gather that a while after that‚ that system was discovered to now be running a blog making fun of ”cringy” multiples) #(so this probably *does* count as someone deleting stuff because they think their past self is too cringe) #(although I *think* it was someone else who actually wrote that OP) #can’t find any copies of those lyrics anywhere #I wrote down what I could remember‚ and recorded myself singing it #but I’m missing a verse #I still wonder if there are any other remaining copies that I just can’t find #(*my* post about it doesn’t show up on search engines‚ after all) #((though if you search the title‚ my SoundCloud page for it does show up)) #101 Uses for Infrastructureless Computers #amnesia cw #this probably deserves some other warning tag but I am not sure what #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

maryellencarter:

szczyrkowa-deactivated20230924:

i am totally going to come across as a boomer in this post but as an engineer it’s common sense to not build systems with a single point of failure. and i’m starting to realize that our usage of the smart phone is exactly that. a single point of failure. the calling/texting is the implied function of the smartphone, which is fine. that’s what it’s built for. but nowadays we don’t think to keep a physical map or atlas or gps unit in our car because our phone has google maps. we don’t keep address books anymore because it’s all stored in our contacts. i serve customers who no longer carry a wallet/physical card because it’s all on their phone. this is literally a single point of failure. if you lose or break your phone when you are in a foreign place you are fucking screwed. maybe you’re still screwed even in your home town because so many people have become accustomed to using a smart phone to take them anywhere.

as someone who worked in the cell phone industry for five years: this. your email requires two factor authentication to your phone. setting up a new iphone requires two factor authentication to your old iphone. putting a new phone on your phone number requires two factor authentication to a previously active phone on your account. if you ever lose your phone or if it refuses to wake up one day, god help you because no one in the industry can


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#yes this #one is none‚ folks #disappointed permanent resident of The Future #101 Uses for Infrastructureless Computers #I have specifically arranged my cloud-storage setup to *not* require 2FA #(there *are* multiple layers of encryption involved‚ but–carefully–only with passwords that I’ve memorised) #so that‚ if it came down to it‚ I could bootstrap back into having a full copy of my archives #–complete with version history– #with nothing but my memories and a computer with Internet access #the potential-future mes who just fled a burning home with nothing but pajamas and (bedroom-table) respirator have enough problems already #also‚ check your government services and see if they sell paper maps #Ontario will sell you one for five bucks #I have one in my bug-out bag #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

bright-eyed-sunshine:

psycheterminal:

Treat anything on Discord as media that will be lost

Do not use Discord to host your files. Do not rely on Discord to preserve your text. DO NOT RELY ON DISCORD FOR ANY KIND OF PRESERVATION OR HOSTING!!

It CAN be lost, it WILL be lost! You must consider Discord as a part of the Core Internet, controlled by one company that hosts the servers.

I thought it was impressive at first that it replaced IRC, but now I am horrified. If the company behind Discord went under today, how many friends would you lose?

How many relationships? How much writing?

You may think this won’t happen, but I remember when AIM went down and along with it, entire novels worth of interaction with my oldest friend.

IT CAN HAPPEN TO YOU. IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN. NO COMPANY IS INFALLIBLE.

Back up your files! Download anything you’ve saved to Discord NOW, before the API changes go into effect! And DO NOT RELY ON THEM FOR HOLDING IMPORTANT FILES!

Here is a program that lets you download any and all of your discord DMs, your servers, everything. You can set the format (raw text, html (dark and light), and others. You can even download the uploaded files not just the text, though that may be just for the command-line version not the GUI window version.

GitHub – Tyrrrz/DiscordChatExporter: Exports Discord chat logs to a file

Please back up your conversations, your stories. I have a backup of everything I care about that runs once a week, with full attachment backups every several months. I write stories on discord, and would be devastated if someone happened to them. You have to have your own local copies of every file you care about.


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#Discord #amnesia cw #101 Uses for Infrastructureless Computers #PSA #recs #DiscordChatExporter is amazing #highly‚ highly recommended #though note that due to limitations on Discord’s end‚ it can’t preserve info on *who* used reaction emojis #if you’re extremely stubborn like me‚ you can open up the raw HTML and manually edit that into the hovertext #if not‚ don’t let the perfect be the enemy of the good #even an unmodded export is incredibly valuable #(from my perspective‚ here on the other side of the queue‚ I reblogged that post on offline-first smartphones less than an hour ago) #(and I will note that the *text* of DiscordChatExporter HTML exports is visible on mobile‚ but not the images) #(even if you turned media downloads on (and do make sure to turn media downloads on)) #(not sure if there’s some tinkering I could do to make that work: I *mostly* re-read chat logs on a laptop) #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once

bisexualbaker:

bisexualbaker:

Why do people keep recommending Dreamwidth as a Tumblr alternative, when Dreamwidth and Tumblr are so different?

To be flat-out honest, it’s because Dreamwidth has so many things that Tumblr users say they want, even if it’s also lacking a lot of features that Tumblr users have come to love:

  • Dreamwidth has incredibly lax content hosting rules. I’d say that it’s slightly more restrictive than AO3, but only just slightly, and only because AO3’s abuse team has been so overwhelmed and over-worked. Otherwise, the hosting policies are pretty similar. You want to go nuts, show nuts? You can do that on Dreamwidth.
  • In fact, Dreamwidth is so serious about “go nuts, show nuts”, it gave up the ability to accept transactions through PayPal in 2009 to protect our ability to do that. (It’s also one reason why Dreamwidth doesn’t have an app: Dreamwidth will never be beholden to Apple’s content rules this way.)
  • Dreamwidth cares about your privacy; it doesn’t sell your data, and barely collects any to begin with. As far as I’m aware, it only collects what it needs to run the site. The owners have also spoken out on behalf of internet privacy many times, and are prepared to put their money where their mouth is.
  • No ads. Ever. Period. They mean it. Dreamwidth is entirely user funded.
  • Posts viewed in reverse chronological order; no algorithm, opt-in or otherwise. No algorithm at all. No “For You” or “Suggested” page. You still entirely create and curate your own experience.
  • The ability to make posts that only your “mutuals”, or even only a specific subset of your “mutuals”, can see. Want to make a post that’s only open to Bonnie, Clyde, Butch, and Cassidy? You can do that! Want to make a post that’s only open to Bonnie and Butch, but Clyde and Cassidy can’t see shit? You can do that, too!
  • The owners have forsworn NFTs and the blockchain in general. Not as big a worry now as it was even a year ago, but still good to know!
  • We are explicitly the customers of Dreamwidth. Dreamwidth wants to make us happy, so any changes they make (and they do make changes) are made with us in mind, and after exploring as many possibilities as they can.
  • Dreamwidth is very transparent about their policies and changes. If you want to know why they’re making a specific change, or keeping or getting rid of a feature, they will tell you. You don’t have to find out ten months later that they’re locked into a contract to keep it for a year (cough cough Tumblr Live cough cough).

So those are some things that Tumblr users would probably love about Dreamwidth.

Another reason Dreamwidth keeps being recommended is that a significant portion of the Age 30+ crowd spent a lot of earlier fandom years on a site known as LiveJournal. Dreamwidth may not be much like Tumblr, but it it started out as a code fork of LiveJournal, so it will be very familiar to anyone who spent any time there. Except better.

Finally, we’re recommending Dreamwidth because some of the things that Tumblr users want are just… not going to happen on the web as it is now. Image hosting is the big one for this. Maybe in the future, the price of data will be much cheaper, and Dreamwidth will be able to host as much as we all want for a pittance that a fraction of the userbase will happily pay for everyone, but right now that’s just not possible.

Everywhere you want to go that hosts a lot of images will either be running lots of ads, selling your data, or both.

Dreamwidth knows how much it costs to host your data, and has budgeted for that. They are hosting within their means, within our means.

Dreamwidth is the closest thing we may ever get to AO3 as a social media platform. One of the co-owners is from, and still in, fandom; she knows our values, because they are also her values. It may as well be the Blogsite Of Our Own.

TL;DR: There is no website that has everything that Tumblr wants and nothing that it hates. Dreamwidth at least has all of the important stuff covered.


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#yes this #I have maintained an outpost on Tumblr‚ but I moved my home base to Dreamwidth after the Purge #and I’m very happy with it #Dreamwidth #The Great Tumblr Apocalypse #recs #this post was queued because my to-reblog list is too long and I didn’t want to dump it on you all at once