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FWIW when I took one of those internet tests I scored inbetween average normie and average faceblind, which corresponds pretty well to my lived experience – e.g. I often don’t recognize somebody the second time I see them, but usually start to after that. I have no trouble recognizing my coworkers, but I get the two bald guys in sales who I occasionally exchange pleasantries with confused.
Assuming the friend is an actual friend, not just a friendly acquantaince (inside the dunbar group?), I think not recognizing them automatically would matter.<<
Well, whenever I hear people draw a distinction between “friend” and “friendly acquaintance”, they almost always define “friend” so strictly that I have had maybe one or two friends in the past decade, and no friends whose faces I saw frequently. (honestly, where do the friend-vs-acquaintance people find so many people who don’t respond to interpersonal problems by contemptuously brushing them off)
This is what I was trying to indicate with the dunbar group comment, should have made it more clear, sorry. I meant your 100 or 200 closest associates.
I can reliably recognise housemates at the mall, and have nobody else whose faces I have as much experience with as one would have with one’s band members. I can suspect that a person at the mall is my boss, but not with confidence; however, I’ve only been around him ~[3 gradually increasing to 8]† hours/week for 1.5 years, so it’s to be expected that I’m only in the middle stages of learning his face.
(He is not faceblind–or at least, he’s significantly better at keeping track of which customers are regulars than I am–but he still didn’t spot me. I asked about how his Boxing Day went a couple days later and confirmed that he was at the mall that day, so it probably was him I saw.)
Oh people totally miss each other all the time in big crowds, even facenormies. I think a lot of it is just never even noticing the other person at all. My impression is that faceblindness is when you can intentionally look someone in the face and not be sure, as opposed to more general lack of awareness (which I think is pretty common in normies).
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If we can do a little evolutionary speculation here, in the ancestral environment, telling whether the guy you just saw in the forest is in your band, or a stranger, or the particular guy in the band who would really benefit if you weren’t around is a matter of life and death.<<
While this isn’t all that different from what I said, it does make it more clear why, if someone did mutate an unusually good facial-recognition ability, it would get selected for and eventually become the norm. If you don’t know whether someone’s an enemy and neither do they, that’s far less dangerous than if they know you’re enemies and you don’t.
Also, not knowing by the face whether someone’s in your tribe is something even mezzoprosopons or whatever the hell we’re calling them have to deal with these days, and they deal with it by simply making tribe members wear distinctive clothing when there’s a chance they might encounter an enemy [link].
(and I feel like a lot of the reasons that I refrain from murdering people would still apply to the stalking-a-rival-in-the-forest thing, but perhaps my threshold for “I am willing to accept X risk of Y-severity punishment†† in order to get the benefits of committing this crime” is unusually strict; probably an anxiety thing)
I’m no expert but my impression that what we know of hunter-gatherers is that they experience much higher rates of violent death than moderns do and that murder is an issue and violent conflict between groups tended to be irregular and probably involved a lot of raiding and the like.
So I’m not saying that everyone would be murdering their rivals in the forest, and hunter gatherer you might not, but I think the temptation to have your enemey experience a “hunting accident” was probably something that happened.
And I imagine groups probably did have significant elements of attire, possibly even some just for violence, but if your camp is getting raided by surprise you’re not going to have time for that.
So here’s a hypothetical: you are a 12 year old girl in said camp getting raided. You hide away so you don’t get caught, but you see a man coming. Your group consists of 50ish relations. Is that guy coming by your uncle once removed john? Or do you need to run? Sure, you’re not totally screwed if you can’t tell, but it sure would help.
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