theunitofcaring:

I keep getting ads that say “IS YOUR BOYFRIEND CHEATING?? FIND OUT WITH THIS TRACKING APP’ and I’m trying to figure out which things I have done on the internet put me into the target demographic for those.

#I don’t have a boyfriend #I don’t like boys #I don’t mind if my partners date other people #I do not think installing tracking apps on peoples’ phones is acceptable behavior #I am mildly distressed that my browsing habits make me seem like the sort of person who would #(I have a good reason for not having adblock active in that browser atm)

Maybe they’re just throwing those ads at everyone and seeing where they stick, like those skeevy porn Tumblrs aimed at vanilla gynosexuals who follow anyone they can find as a way of advertising themselves.

…actually, do those indiscriminate ones still exist? I was just wondering that yesterday. Maybe times have changed or maybe it’s because I’m more open about my sexuality on here than I once was, but where I used to get skeevy porn Tumblrs aimed at vanilla gynosexuals, I now get skeevy porn Tumblrs aimed at hypnosis fetishists. I am weirdly pleased the skeevy porn Tumblrs gave enough fucks to bother tailoring their offerings to stuff I might actually be tempted by. (Still not going to follow them, because even without clicking through the preview pop-up alone shows they are skeevy as hell, but I appreciate the effort.)


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#don’t worry enscenic I’m not including you in this #I think you’re a genuine follower #and not skeevy #reply via reblog #sexuality and lack thereof #advertising

comparativelysuperlative:

theunitofcaring:

I really agree with John Roberts’ dissent in the Supreme Court’s ruling on same-sex marriage today: 

It is striking how much of the majority’s reasoning would apply with equal force to the claim of a fundamental right to plural marriage. If “[t]here is dignity in the bond between two men or two women who seek to marry and in their autonomy to make such profound choices,” why would there be any less dignity in the bond between three people who, in exercising their autonomy, seek to make the profound choice to marry? If a same-sex couple has the constitutional right to marry because their children would otherwise “suffer the stigma of knowing their families are somehow lesser,” why wouldn’t the same reasoning apply to a family of three or more persons raising children? If not having the opportunity to marry “serves to disrespect and subordinate” gay and lesbian couples, why wouldn’t the same “imposition of this disability,” serve to disrespect and subordinate people who find fulfillment in polyamorous relationships?

Every time someone writes that “the majority’s opinion would do X,” I always catch myself imagining that some future decision is going to cite the dissent and say “Yes. That. We hold that it does.”

Tragically this does not seem to be a thing, though I’m sure it happens sometimes. I guess courts prefer quoting people who don’t cast them as the villains. We could be powering the earth with the generators attached to the graves of distinguished former members of the Court!


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#marriage equality #in a broader sense #polyamory

carmarthenfan:

I have extremely mixed feelings about the language of the US Supreme Court ruling (people who don’t marry are not automatically incomplete lonely people ffs, this is not the 19th century), but I understand why they used the strong language they did.

Marriage rights are not the #1 most important issue in the world, but they are important and I’m really glad they made this ruling.


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#marriage equality #aromanticism #(I know there’s other reason not to marry and some aromantics marry anyway but I still think it belongs in that tag) #home of the brave #yes this