If you’re an ace with a cervix…

ace-muslim:

I’m posting this because I’ve seen this question come up a number of times in posts and comments, and there seems to be a lot of confusion and uncertainty around it.

If you are sexually active, or have been previously, you should have regular Pap tests according to the schedule recommended by your doctor.

If you are not sexually active and have never been sexually active, you may not need to have Pap tests done and you should talk to your doctor. Cervical cancer is almost always caused by human papillomavirus (HPV) and HPV infection is almost always caused by sexual (specifically, genital) contact. Because of this, if you are not sexually active and have never been sexually active, there’s a good chance your doctor will recommend that you do not need to have Pap tests done.

You do not need to tell them that you’re asexual, since this is about behavior rather than attraction or orientation.

A lot of things written about Pap tests and cervical cancer seem to assume that all people with cervixes over age 21 are or have been sexually active and they may not provide a specific recommendation in the case of a sexually non-active adult. This seems to be the source of most of the confusion and uncertainty (public health officials, may I kindly suggest not making heteronormative and sex-normative assumptions).

A Pap test is, shall we say, not the world’s most comfortable procedure and sex-averse or sex-repulsed aces may feel especially anxious about it (many of us have a specific aversion or repulsion response to the idea of having something in the vagina). So it’s worth talking with your doctor to find out if you may not need to have it done after all.

I had talked previously with my doctor about this and he had said it was not necessary. Then this week, my healthcare provider’s automated system looked at my age, gender, and medical history and flagged me as needing to have a Pap test done ASAP. I talked to my doctor again and he not only confirmed that I don’t need to have it done, but he put a special note on my record so that I don’t keep getting these reminders. It may seem a bit scary to bring it up, but it can be worth it and make your life easier.


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#pap tests #the more you know #yes this #I’m not particularly afraid of Pap tests #I wouldn’t hesitate to do it if it would be helpful #what I *am* afraid of is people lying to me in order to trick me into ‘consenting’ to useless procedures #(my GP told me when I asked that as a young apparently-healthy virgin I wouldn’t get anything out of a gynecological exam) #(and I am extremely wary of people who insist that I ought to have them no matter what)

kaywinnetleetam:

Mean Serenity

On Wednesdays, we wear brown.


Tags:

#Firefly #Mean Girls #crossover #I never understood why Mean Girls was so popular #(I mean sure *I* liked it) #(but I *was* a homeschooled teenager) #(why did *you* people like it?) #(what did you need a peek into the exotic alien culture of high school for?)

badluckkitten:

mildlyamused:

orange-plum:

draelogor:

lotrlockedwhovian:

viivus:

period thoughts

that would make the funniest fucking story ever. Due to a mix up at the factory, the template for incantations that was supposed to a publishing company of dark art books is sent to a feminine products factory. Girl then accidentally summons Satan with period blood. Satan gets confused because its “dead blood” and when he shows up he realizes the sacrifice was done incorrectly so he cannot take the girl’s soul but now is bound to do her bidding because oops his bad, he showed up anyway.

PLEASE

Menstrual Blood Sacrifice 1

Menstrual Blood Sacrifice 2

Menstrual Blood Sacrifice 3

Menstrual Blood Sacrifice 4

Menstrual Blood Sacrifice 5

My hand slipped

Glorious.

I just…I cannot stop laughing…


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#menstruation #blood sacrifice #anything that makes me laugh this much deserves a reblog

i want a word for the almost-home.

that point where the highway’s monotony becomes familiar
that subway stop whose name will always wake you from day’s-end dozing
that first glimpse of the skyline
that you never loved until you left it behind.

what do you call the exit sign you see even in your dreams?
is there a name for the airport terminal you come back to,
comfortably exhausted?

i need a word for rounding your corner onto your street,
for seeing your city on the horizon,
for flying homewards down your highway.

give me a word for the boundary
between the world you went to see
and the small one you call your own.

i want a word for the moment you know
you’re almost home.

there and back again, n.m.h. (via anoraborealis)

familiar airport lights, the heavy scent of humidity in the air

<3

(via fantasticallyindifferent)


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#poetry