I know it’s important to a lot of beings to have reasons behind the things they identify as – spirituality, or brain chemistry, or hormones etc (and this doesn’t just apply to kin stuff either) – but I’ve just never had that? My attitude is that I am what I am, I feel this way and that’s all right.
I don’t really think it matters why I’m queer/asexual/agender/otherkin/whatever the fuck else I am, it’s not like it’s a problem that needs to be cured; to my way of thinking it’s just something that is.