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@somnilogical liked your post:tfw you want to write about why you put your…

Right, that reminds me of what I was going to say when you liked the previous post. (That like was on the OP rather than my reblog, but I saw it anyway because I was looking at the notes.)

Every time you, a person named Somni, like one of my kink posts, I start wondering about nominative determinism. (Although with a chosen name, even if there is causality it might go the other direction.)

*looks up nominative determinism on Wikipedia*

… the entire article is delightful.

The term has its origin in the “Feedback” column of the British popular science magazine New Scientist in 1994. A series of events raised the suspicion of its editor, John Hoyland, who wrote in the November 5 issue:

“We recently came across a new book, Pole Positions—The Polar Regions and the Future of the Planet, by Daniel Snowman.[39] Then, a couple of weeks later, we received a copy of London Under London—A Subterranean Guide, one of the authors of which is Richard Trench.[40] So it was interesting to see Jen Hunt of the University of Manchester stating in the October issue of The Psychologist: “Authors gravitate to the area of research which fits their surname.”[41] Hunt’s example is an article on incontinence in the British Journal of Urology by A. J. Splatt and D. Weedon.[42]

We feel it’s time to open up this whole issue to rigorous scrutiny. You are invited to send in examples of the phenomenon in the fields of science and technology (with references that check out, please) together with any hypotheses you may have on how it comes about.“[43]

Feedback editors John Hoyland and Mike Holderness subsequently adopted the term nominative determinism as suggested by reader C. R. Cavonius. The term first appeared in the December 17 issue.^[44] Even though the magazine tried to ban the topic numerous times over the decades since,^[45] readers kept sending in curious examples. These included the US navy spokesman put up to answer journalists’ questions about the Guantanamo Bay detention camp, one Lieutenant Mike Kafka;^[46] authors of the book The Imperial Animal Lionel Tiger and Robin Fox;^[47] and the UK Association of Chief Police Officers’ spokesman on knife crime, Alfred Hitchcock.^[48]

Sue Yoo, a lawyer, said that when she was younger people urged her to become a lawyer because of her name, which she thinks may have helped her decision.

Weather reporter Storm Field was not sure about the influence of his name; his father, also a weather reporter, was his driving force.

Psychology professor Lewis Lipsitt, a lifelong collector of aptronyms,^[83] was lecturing about nominative determinism in class when a student pointed out that Lipsitt himself was subject to the effect since he studied babies’ sucking behaviour. Lipsitt said “that had never occurred to me.”

In 2015 researchers Limb, Limb, Limb and Limb published a paper on their study into the effect of surnames on medical specialisation.

New Scientist coined the term nominative contradeterminism for people who move away from their name, creating a contradiction between name and occupation. Examples include Andrew Waterhouse, a professor of wine,^[63] would-be doctor Thomas Edward Kill, who subsequently changed his name to Jirgensohn,^[64] and the Archbishop of Manila,Cardinal Sin.^[65][E]

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I googled “Somni kink” and got my own posts as the first results. [ And several other people with the username “somni” on other sites after that. I’m … not actually in the Supernatural fandom(yet?). In case anyone was wondering. ] So I suspect this is not the name of a specific kink but a general allusion to hypnosis.

In this case, it might be of note that my girlfriend ( Sofi ) (( @sigmaleph )) is rather fond of hypnosis things. And I am interested in her as well.

I’m kind of shy about these things, so I don’t like listing things that I like directly. If you or anyone else is interested, I created an editable document of my kinks and people (including those I’ve done things with) have been filling it in.

It is located here.

#I asked her consent before posting this

#the actual motivation behind my name is more cluster-y
#and has to do with a specific notion of dream logic as it manifests as a technique to reliably solve problems  #or at least get somewhere interesting

#This post feels weird #but everything is accurate  #so off it goes
#I hope I’m being kind  #I can’t see a specific rule of kindness that I broke  #but I worry that I broke a rule undiscovered by me or a rule that I’m not thinking about right now  #But I often worry about this #The heuristic for this is if people are not complaining they are being hurt afterwards  #and other people doing the thing you are worried about with modding out by the confounders are not hurting people  #then it is probably okay as far as you know   #and if you cannot think of a way in which what you are saying is unkind  #after thinking a lot  #there is nothing more to do  the vault of heaven will not crack open and deliver a infinitely trustworthy certificate of ultimate kindness  #to vet your planned actions  #Thinking about it  #looking at what other people have done  #reading  #and consulting others  #is enough  #it might not get the answer right  #but for these small social interactions  #it is enough

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Re: nominative determinism, those are some delightful quotes.

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There is a fetish called “somnophilia”, which is a term that sounds like it ought to apply to me but actually refers to having intercourse with unconscious people (occasionally to other people having intercourse with you while you’re unconscious, but mostly you hear from tops). Sometimes I look through somnophilia stuff in case somebody like me wandered in because they got confused by the name, or is deliberately trying to expand the definition. (I could see an alternate, more genitally-inclined version of me being into semi-conscious intercourse, which is why I got excited when I saw somebody in the Tumblr somnophilia tag talking about how they were into that…and then they turned out to be fictional.)

I went back and checked, and it looks like you haven’t actually pressed the “like” button on any of my posts regarding my adventures in the Tumblr somnophilia tag, although the also-very-aptly-named @spiralingintocontrol did once. (And you did like the pun about fucking the natural order.)

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I don’t see anything unkind, given that you did ask Sofi’s permission.

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#reply via reblog #sexuality and lack thereof #so apparently it’s one of those days when I spend a lot of time writing blog posts and don’t get as much video gaming in as I’d wanted #*shrug* #(expect a Flight Rising post in the near future though) #(hopefully before bedtime)