Right, that reminds me of what I was going to say when you liked the previous post. (That like was on the OP rather than my reblog, but I saw it anyway because I was looking at the notes.)
Every time you, a person named Somni, like one of my kink posts, I start wondering about nominative determinism. (Although with a chosen name, even if there is causality it might go the other direction.)
tfw you want to write about why you put your writing out there, but you’re afraid to put that out there
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#I can never remember what counts as irony #but that’s certainly *something* #even assuming a do-not-reblog notice would be respected #writing it and putting *that* on top would be just as ironic-or-something if not more so #in fairness the meta-writing is *way* more insubordinate than the writing itself #(basically it’s an answer to that old question of ”why is it important to publicly acknowledge kink”) #(”not just on a society level but on an individual level”) #(”why not just stay quiet where nobody can see you”) #and of course the gatekeepers are especially ravenous around Coming Out Day #(but catching glimpses of their ravening is exactly why I’ve been thinking about this) #oh look an original post
We’re at the end of the first theme week here, and I’d like to get a sense of what you thought of it. What did you like, what would you change? What you like to see in the future?
I thought the “So what is…” posts you made were really great resources – it’d be great if you had a separate links page that collected them for easy access when they get pushed down by other posts. Something I’d definitely like to see is a clear tagging system, because right now there’s not a lot organizing the blog’s content. “Personal stories” (although I’m sure there’s a better way to name that tag), “resources” or “guides”, and “blog meta” might be good ones to start with?
Yeah, I was thinking about the kind of structure that should be here. The “So… What is _____, Anyway” posts seem like they could turn into an ace-friendly sex ed library if there’s enough of them on enough topics. I might even haul them over to Asexuality Archive at some point. I’m not sure yet. It doesn’t feel like they belong there, though.
Tagging is also definitely useful, although Tumblr doesn’t make that easy. (You have to post an ask, then you can tag it. You can’t tag it before you post it.)
@biggestdisappointmentinwarfare said: I could do with a summary post after a theme week. Or a master post of resources on the topic (where to find guides, toys, information). I like reading all the different experiences and learning that there are others with exactly the same problems, but yet are somehow different. Or solved differently.
Do you mean something like a weekly table of contents? Would better tagging help here?
@brin-bellway said: I really liked the informative posts, but it was also nice to see people connecting and sharing their experiences. I didn’t really participate myself, partly because of finals and illness (luckily in that order) and partly because I don’t do vanilla masturbation, and talking about solo kink before a kink overview seemed like putting the cart before the horse.
Yeah, that’s a problem with a topic that has many interconnections like this. I can imagine someone this week thinking the opposite, where they don’t want to talk about kink, because to them, it’s more masturbation than kink. How can I better encourage people to bring something up that might be relevant, even if a different theme might fit it more closely?
@brin-bellway said: Also, given that this posted at 3:40 AM Eastern, I suspect your queue is still having timezone issues.
Nah, that was just me posting after midnight.
“How can I better encourage people to bring something up that might be relevant, even if a different theme might fit it more closely?”
Well, the problem wasn’t so much about it better fitting a different week as it was about better fitting a later week, or rather, the post would rely on a broader context that didn’t yet exist (at least not on asexualactivities). If something ends up working better for an earlier week, I might be able to use “last time on” links to post(s) from that week to give some context.
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Another thing: I know I was a voice in favour of Disqus, but now that I’ve considered actually leaving a comment, I find myself worried that nobody will see it. The number of Disqus comments on a post can’t be seen from the dash, or even the front page. It’s not like a Blogspot or a WordPress, where anyone reading the post is going to automatically see whether there are comments on it. As far as I can tell, it looks like you can’t get a side-wide comment subscription for sites you don’t moderate, which means that even if you use comment subscriptions, you have to manually check every post at least once (to subscribe to it) on the off chance somebody might comment there.
The answer is apparently “because we’re actually able to eat it”
Fun fact: white people (specifically Northern European white people) have a genetic mutation that allows them to digest lactose even after weaning, which is abnormal for all mammals and also most humans. It’s theorized that because Northern Europe doesn’t get a lot of sun, an alternative source of vitamin D (like milk) would be a useful trait. It’s a very recent mutation that would only have happened after humans started domesticating animals like cows and goats.
oh no, my bizarre moment has come, cause lactose tolerance is actually A Thing I Know About because it’s played a fascinating role in human evolution for thousands of years. This chart displays some of the broad trends, but it’s giving near continental averages, which doesn’t showcase how this kind of thing really breaks down and some of the surprising exceptions.
Lactose tolerance is the majority trait for only a very few population groups: North Europeans (and therefore populations that draw heavily from that stock, such as America,) nomadic central Eurasians, and sub-Saharan pastoralist Africans, but that latter group is often overlooked. The vast majority of Africans cannot process lactose, but certain people groups whose lifestyles have revolved around cattle for thousands of years will have 80% and even approaching 100% lactose tolerance rates. They’d be spots of dark green amidst a sea of orange and burgundy on the above chart.
Our hunter-gatherer ancestors were almost entirely lactose intolerant, that is definitely the biological norm (and people groups who maintained that lifestyle, such as Native Americans, remained as such – along with groups who transitioned to sedentary agricultural lifestyles, but I’ll get into that). As such, lactose tolerance is an adaptive trait that only became prevalent in environments that exerted strong selective pressure for it. So, cows were domesticated some 10,000 odd years ago in the Middle East (and some have contended for an independent domestication event in Africa as well). In either case, cattle quickly spread across the continent and we know there was milking and cheese production at least 6,000 years ago in both the Nile and Mesopotamia. While cow meat would have been enjoyed by all, in agricultural societies milk and cheese would have been options, but hardly staples as there were plenty of other things to eat as well, and therefore there would have been no selective pressure for processing lactose. Also, sedentary societies had ways of processing milk and cheese that allowed lactose intolerant people to drink/eat dairy products. Fermenting milk or aging cheese breaks down lactose, making it a non issue once ingested. This is why fermented milk may seem utterly foul to many Westerners, but is extremely common in other parts of the world. But, fermentation and aging requires time, and the ability to store things in a single location for weeks or even months. Sedentary societies adapted the milk to fit their biology, but nomadic societies did the reverse.
There are still mobile pastoralist societies in Africa today, and there have been for thousands and thousands of years. For many of them, cows are not one of many dietary options, they are the single dietary staple around which their lifestyle revolves. Biologically, this means you gotta get with the program if you wanna survive. For most mobile tribes, fermentation and aging weren’t options, so there would have been strong selective pressure favoring those who could drink milk straight outta the cow, as they would have had an additional, highly nutritious food source available to them. Milk also allowed for a marked shortening of the weaning process, transitioning children from breastmilk to cow’s milk, which would again be advantageous for groups where both the men and women work and are always on the move. Over generations these populations specialized into essentially cow-based lifestyles, creating a survival niche highly advantageous to them, and fast forward thousands of years and there are groups in Africa with near ubiquitous lactose tolerance, while the rest of the continent (and the world really) is nearly entirely intolerant.
Many of these same factors would have influenced the central Eurasian populations, which is why Mongolians and other descendants of nomadic steppe peoples are largely lactose tolerant, as mare’s milk would have been a dietary staple (though they also developed efficient ways to ferment it).
North Europeans developed lactose tolerance in response to deficiencies in certain nutrients. The northern climate limited Vitamin D production, and the agricultural products available to them were often low on calcium and protein, and so dairy farming developed alongside agriculture to create a more rounded diet (and this was limited to Northern Europeans, as Mediterranean peoples such as the Romans wrote about their great confusion at the northern barbarians’ ability to drink fresh milk)
And I promise all of this is fascinating because the ability to process lactose evolved independently in several different population groups and in response to different factors: lifestyles revolving around cows, lifestyles revolving around horses, deficiencies in climate and agriculture. Besides providing insight into human history and biology, lactose tolerance is also a great example of convergent evolution, where different genetic populations in different environments produce similar results.
And uh, that’s my rant about the role of milk and lactose tolerance in human evolution.
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#the more you know #food #history #I’m lactose-tolerant and dairy accounts for a fairly large chunk of my caloric intake #sometimes before eating it I take a moment to appreciate my dairy-farming ancestors giving me this option #thank you dairy-farming ancestors #(I was worried this post was going to be more fucking foodshaming) #(but then it went well)
This cold is weirdly accelerated. The symptoms are more severe, and have rather longer periods of overlap (normally one symptom fades out as the next fades in), but overall it seems to be going by faster.
At first, this seemed like a good deal. Yeah, Day 2 in particular was pretty miserable, but on Day 3 I already felt like I’d turned the corner. It’s Day 4 now, and I feel the way I normally would around Day 6. My appetite isn’t up to par, but my body generally isn’t resisting me anymore when I try to get it to eat, and occasionally I even feel hungry. My sense of taste is still a bit distorted, but I can mostly taste things now. My normal level of executive function has more or less returned. The tiredness still feels mostly hollow, and I certainly don’t feel the way I ought to feel after getting ~4 – 5 hours of sleep the night before, but it isn’t completely hollow.
Turns out there’s an additional price I didn’t foresee, though it’s sort of mentioned in that list:
If your coughing is accelerated such that you are having 1 – 4 bouts of coughing per 2 minutes, you cannot sleep. Every time you start to even sort of settle in, another cough wakes you up. I spent three straight hours (3 – 6 AM) lying in bed, trying to find stimuli that would distract me from the urge to cough but not distract me from sleeping. (I considered taking dimenhydrinate, but given that I was already on pseudoephedrine and dextromethorphan*, I didn’t want to add another drug into the mix without having a chance to look into their interactions. Maybe tonight.)
(In the end, I don’t think anything I did worked: the coughing just sort of stopped for a while around 6 AM, enough that I was able to get another ~3 hours of sleep in.)
Given the choice of this symptom profile or the normal one, I might still go with this one, but it’s less obvious a choice than it was yesterday.
*I thought “reduces the urge to cough” meant “reduces frequency of urge to cough”, but last night’s experience was actually “reduces severity of urge to cough, such that it’s easier to ignore if you have things to take your mind off it”.
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#”get well soon” indeed #oh look an original post #Brin talks about herself for no particular reason #illness tw #disordered eating?
You can bring dead people to live again, but for every person you bring back, you have to sacrifice one body part
Me: *plucks out another hair*
Sadistic Genie: Okay I know that technically counts but I really feel you’re not getting into the spirit of-
Me: *ceremonially sacrifices hair, very seriously*
Sadistic Genie: Like one time, just once, couldn’t it be a toe or a finger or something?
Me: Oh like how you so graciously go by what people ‘mean’ and not exactly how they’ve phrased things?
Sadistic Genie: …
Me: …
Sadistic Genie: …sometimes I-
Me: Just resurrect them already.
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#fun with loopholes #death tw #so I tried looking this up #there seems to be a fair bit of agreement that the human *head* has 100k hairs #(though whether that’s true or just something that stuck I don’t know) #nobody seems to know how many in total beyond ”a fuckton” #if regrowing your hair and sacrificing the replacements is permitted #it’s very possible that the limiting factor on how many people you can resurrect #is how long it takes to perform the ritual rather than how many body parts you have
Y’ALL. i need your help with ds9fic recs that are not spoilery beyond the end of s5! tumblr user @replicarters beloved of this blog is like starving and we need to help her. she especially wants kira fic and kira/dax (or kira & dax) fic and fic about dax and sisko. probably also just dax fic in general.
I have nothing to say regarding the actual topic, only this: what is it with people named Brin (or spelling variations thereupon) and terrible name puns? Other Brins I have encountered include “brinconvenient” and “Brynncognito”. I don’t have a pun in my username, but my blog title is “Brinens and Things”.
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#Star Trek #DS9 #recs #names #tangents #reply via reblog #puns
So I’ve got a cold (at least it waited until I was done with my semester and on break), and when I spoke this morning my first thought was “dear god, I sound like the Fathers”. (to hear the bit I was quoting, go to timestamp 3:07)
I coughed a bit between that first speech and recording this, clearing some stuff out, so the impersonation isn’t quite as good.
(Neat fact: my pitch here actually sounds better than my normal voice, where “better” means “more closely approximating the way my voice sounds from the inside”.)
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#oh look an original post #Hidden Almanac #anyone else here actually listen to the Hidden Almanac? #I tried looking at the public Tumblr tag a few days ago #and nobody had posted for months #(maybe the problem is that I don’t speak Begonia) #illness tw